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The Mystery of Sex Transmutation

Just what is the mystery of sex transmutation?

Sex transmutation is a key process responsible for all major achievements and creations throughout the ages.

Those men who left their mark on history were said to be men with highly Sexed Natures as a result of transmuting their sex energy by funneling it into avenues other than sexual expression at the physical level.

So if you wish to excel at your highest potential in your chosen pursuits, you MUST understand and utilize the power of your own sex nature by transmuting your sex energy into your endeavors.

In other words, go to your worthy ideal with the same motivation as you would in pursuing sexual expression.

So just what is the mystery of sex transmutation, really?

In Grow Rich! With Peace of Mind, Napoleon Hill writes of sex transmutation:

In essence, sex transmutation is the ability to switch a desire for physical contact to a similar desire for expression -- in art, literature, science, selling or anything else. The switch may be done so habitually that it is not a conscious act -- but it always is there.

Then in Think and Grow Rich, he writes:

Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge in it. When harnessed and redirected, this motivating force maintains all its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.

And as you may have guessed, in both books, Think and Grow Rich and Grow Rich! With Peace of Mind, Hill dedicates a chapter to the mystery of sex transmutation in each one.

One of Hill's best secrets is found in him saying, "Every adversity, every failure and every heartache carries with it the Seed of an equivalent or greater Benefit."

I think this quote ties in well with the mystery of sex transmutation.

Why?

Most of you are here because you've at one time or another failed with women, right?

That failure may have caused you to seek a solution to your problems with women, and brought you here. And as you learn to deal with women better, you'll encounter more adversity...

... which will thrust you to face yourself in the mirror and honestly see yourself by removing what your ego tries to hide from you.

Some want a guarantee that they'll succeed with women, risk-free.

But risk and failure are your teachers. They give you the lessons of success. And when you realize that, you start transferring it over into all other avenues of Life.

So, right now, agree and resolve within yourself that...

... you WILL be rejected by women, if you choose to ultimately succeed. And sure, it may not be nearly as bad as you think it might be -- but you will be rejected.

And that's great! It teaches you to harness your sex energy.

Rejection from women is just a signal that you haven't yet harnessed your sex nature.

What I've discovered is that the only guarantee to success is to include risk and failure in your plan. For without them, even if you understand the 'map', you won't know the territory -- where success actually happens.

It doesn't happen on a map.

And if you look through history, at those men who left their mark, inside many of their stories, you'll see that they were rejected by the 'woman of their dreams'.

But because of that very event, it allowed them to get in touch with a deeper, undiscovered part of themselves. They took that desire for sexual expression, which was denied them, and transmuted it into something worthy.

That's they mystery of sex transmutation. Why is it a mystery? Because few are bold enough to fail and accept it without making excuses, allowing them to evolve.

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Jay Julio