Teasing Women:
The Secret to Trigger Attraction
Teasing women is one of the most powerful forms of communication you can use with them. It demonstrates all the masculine qualities in a man that cause women to FEEL attracted to you.
And without a woman feeling attraction for you, all you have is friendship.
In fact, a common response you'll notice women have when you tease them is a strong, seemingly uncontrollable urge to touch you.
They'll either just do it, or they'll come up with an excuse to touch you.
Perhaps it's obvious, but when a woman INITIATES the touching with you, she's giving you a major signal that she feels something for you and is interested 'romantically'.
So if you don't yet understand the reason why teasing women has such a strong effect -- maybe you're under the impression that teasing girls is rude or even mean -- or perhaps you've seen the effect it has but simply don't know how to tease women yet, let me reveal the basics to you.
And I believe the key to understanding why it works is by looking at the...
Masculine and Feminine Powers of Attraction
The reason teasing women is so powerful is because it corresponds perfectly with what naturally attracts a woman to a man.
We know a woman's sexual power -- the power she has over men -- is a means to our sexual expression. Women know we want them as 'sexual outlets' or as a bridge to our sexual gratification.
All us men know this, but...
How many of us know what power of attraction we have over women? How many know what bridge we provide to their gratification? For those who do, give themselves the power to turn the tables...
Instead of yielding to women's power, they begin submitting to yours. And that gives YOU the choice with women, rather than letting THEM choose you.
A man's sexual power is his ability to be a leader in his community.
Men control access to society, while women control access to sex. And since women want high standing in their communities, they're eager to give sex to the men who are leaders -- who can give them that standing.
And you thought it was all about ooey-gooey 'love' and affection?
So what does this have to do with teasing women?
The Difference between Teasing and Flirting
Though teasing and flirting are in similar realms, there is a slight but important difference. And understanding that difference is critical.
Think back. Do you remember teasing girls in grade school? If so, why did you do it? And more importantly, what kind of effect did it have on them?
Wasn't a part of the reason for teasing girls because you liked them, yet, at the same time, you didn't care whether they liked you back? You just PLAYFULLY made fun or disapproved of them without caring if they got upset.
In fact, didn't it make it MORE fun when they got upset or flustered?
So then, what is teasing? And how are teasing and flirting different?
Teasing women is a way of indirectly communicating that THEY want your approval while you simultaneously don't give it them.
And going back, how do communities function? You either look for the approval or acceptance of the leader -- or you are the leader! By teasing women you're communicating that you are that leader and she wants your acceptance -- in a fun way, which is exactly what women instinctively want.
Flirting, on the other hand, is when women use their power of attraction to essentially have the same impact on men. So instead of playing with the chance to fit in, they play with the opportunity for sex.
So teasing and flirting are like 'gender equivalents'. They're both manifestations of each sexes attractive powers.
Learning the Art of Romantic Teasing
To put it simply: women want to get together with leaders; teasing women playfully demonstrates to them that you are one, while it injects mystery and challenge into the interaction at the same time...
... the recipe for attraction and establishing a 'Lover Relationship'.
So how do you tease women in an attractive way -- romantic teasing that communicates everything I've been talking about? It's a big subject that can't be fully covered in such a short article.
But I discuss the practical applications on how to do this in Cool Guy with Women. I also highly recommend David DeAngelo's material. He's got some great stuff.
As you learn the art of romantic teasing, just remember...
Like Cocky and Funny, teasing women fits into the same volatile realm. It's like a bomb, both powerful and dangerous. Used wisely, it can have a magnetic effect. But used poorly, it can explode in your face.
Again, teasing to please is the reason it will explode in your face -- or teasing for approval and to get a positive response.
The opposite of what it was designed in Nature to communicate.
