Focus Only on a
Romantic Relationship
When it comes to women you want, you're interested in a romantic relationship, right? So why not funnel all your efforts into establishing this kind of relationship?
... Where she sees you in only a romantic light -- and NOTHING else.
Life has so many aspects. When it comes to women, focus on a romantic relationship. Everything you do should push the relationship into a romantic light.
Focusing on the romance means that you ONLY play a romantic role in a woman's life, and she ONLY plays a romantic role in your life.
Just how do you do this?
Let's first take a look at what aspects there are to a woman's life. That will give the awareness of what to avoid, allowing things to move towards a romantic relationship... naturally.
The key, really, is to get rid of what interferes with a woman seeing you in a romantic way. So let's take a look...
Her Personal Life
Her personal life involves things like her day-to-day activities or obligations. These are the necessities in life like going shopping, doing the laundry, doing the dishes, visiting family... the list goes on.
If you let yourself get involved in a woman's personal life, you're going to end as her little servant. That does not pave the way for a romantic relationship.
So don't get involved in her day to day activities, the necessities.
How?
Always lay the general plan out to her before hand. Let her know what the two of you will be doing. Lead the way.
And avoid getting involved in visiting her family with her -- unless, of course, you've already met them and you have things in common.
But avoid becoming obligated to visiting her family.
Her Social Life
Women's social lives tend to involve talking about or discussing their personal lives. Yes, this often means their problems.
If you listen to a woman's problems and advise her on solutions, she'll start seeing you as a friend. This does not set the direction for a romantic relationship.
Friends care. But lovers love. Stop caring, and start loving. Don't get involved in her personal problems. That's not the role lovers play.
Also, like family, her friends are her friends. Avoid placing yourself in a position where you feel obligated to spend time with her friends -- if you'd rather not.
Her social life doesn't have to become yours.
Her Professional Life
Women are at work to earn money, or at school (for the most part) to get better jobs -- just like us.
There's nothing wrong with dating co-workers or classmates. But, I think, there are some considerations worth making, especially when dating co-workers with 'authority'.
If you have to take 'orders' from a woman on the job, that definitely doesn't set the direction for a great romantic relationship for that dynamic will carry over into your personal relationship.
However, if you choose to date co-workers or classmates, keep in mind that, unless one of you quits their job or drops-out of school, that woman will have to remain in your life.
And if things end on a sour note, that can complicate your work environment or school atmosphere. Work, more so than school.
Do what you want. But I always suggest avoiding dating women from work... unless you really know how to handle yourself in these situations.
Her Love Life
You want to target a woman's love life. You want to focus on ONLY playing into her love life. That's why you focus on ONLY on a romantic relationship.
Refuse to play into any other aspect.
Whenever a woman, who you're interested in, gives you an invitation that places you in anything but her love life, don't take it.
And on the flip-side, if she attempts to place you in another role, refuse to go there.
Say No. Or walk away if you have to.
There can be no compromises, so target a romantic relationship only!
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
