The Truth About Opening
Lines for Meeting Women
"What are the best opening lines for meeting women?" seems to be the question on most guys minds when they want to start learning how to meet and communicate attractively with women.
My question in response is "Why do you want to learn opening lines to meet women?"
Sound like a strange question with an obvious answer?
"To meet women, of course!"
The reason I ask this question is not to be difficult, but because I think there's a much larger issue underneath that question.
Getting at that issue is the real solution to meeting women.
If you truly want to be successful at meeting women, this issue MUST be addressed...
The Best Opening Lines for Meeting Women
Personally, I don't use opening lines for meeting women. Well... that's not entirely true. Want to know the best opening line I use?
Let me warn you... it's a tough one. It takes a lot of rehearsal and practice to get it just perfect. And here it is...
"Hi!"
You know I'm kidding, right? About the difficulty, that is.
And that's just the point. Looking for the perfect opening lines for meeting women is an effect of thinking that meeting women is like climbing Everest.
In reality, meeting women is EASY. But if you find or think approaching women is difficult, you must realize that idea exists only in YOUR mind.
The real solution to meeting women is to remove that idea!
Then the words -- what you actually say -- don't really matter. You come up with them in the moment, without having to rehearse them.
The Truth about Opening Lines...
I'm going to be blunt.
If you're searching for opening lines for meeting women BECAUSE you think they're a failsafe way to meet women, you're kidding yourself.
Looking for the perfect opening line that guarantees you will succeed is exactly the REASON that keeps the idea that meeting women is difficult in your mind -- there is no such line!
Why? Lines aren't that important.
It truly doesn't matter WHAT you say. All that really matters is HOW you say what you do say -- the attitude or energy behind it. That's what determines what kind of response you get when you approach a woman.
So if you're serious about becoming good at meeting women, realize that always looking for better and better opening lines for meeting women actually distracts you from what you want...
... meeting women!
Learn to let go and think for yourself -- on your own feet -- rather than let someone else try to tell you exactly what to say to women. Not only will you be more effective, you'll be more genuine...
... and that's the winner!
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
