Marriage: Legalized Prostitution?

Are many of today's marriages within our matriarchal society that much different than legalized prostitution?

I saw a Robert Kiyosaki special on television a few months ago, and he made an interesting comment that alluded to how many women view marriage...

He was telling a story about a seminar he did where he was discussing assets and liabilities. When he asked for audience participation, one woman spoke up and said, "My husband's my asset."

Kiyosaki said this in a joking way, but if you look around and inside the heads of many women, you'll find the only funny thing about it is...

... that is the truth.

Many women use "love" or sex as a seductive lure to capture naive men into marriage -- nothing more than a legal contract, which entitles her to his assets.

How is that different from female prostitution... legalized protitution at that? For it gives the wife instant access to his life's work -- basically in exchange for sex -- which she can take with but one decision.

That's why marriage is a huge decision for a man. If he makes a poor choice in a partner, it can bring destruction to his entire life. It can destroy all his past efforts and also curse his future, whether through her negative influence or through divorce.

Women have little to lose when it comes divorce. In fact, many times, divorce will actually benefit them immensely. Think of Paul McCartney last year.

Some women see marriage as a short-term investment -- with a big pay-off! It's like a guaranteed lottery winner.

And what's the definition of prositution? A business exchange of money for sexual service.

I was taking a course last year, and a fellow student told the class about the tragedy of one of his friends. He married a woman, against all his friends advice, and what does she do three months into the marriage? She divorces him. And what does she get? Only half of his assets. And what does he get? A broken-heart and a drained 'bank account'.

It sounded like this was her plan all along.

What's really going on here? What is the real dynamic to these kinds of marriages? Isn't it just a covert prostitution business transaction?

A mere form of legalized prostitution. The man exchanges half his assets for three months of sex?

And maybe she makes this a ritual prostitution, will repeat it with her next 'customer', and had done it previously.

Who knows.

Naturally, this is a very touchy subject. My intention is not to start any kind of war, as this is just as much the man's fault as the woman's. In fact, you could say the man used his money to buy three months worth of sex from his the woman who was his wife.

There's no one to blame. My aim is simply to present some of the realties and traps we're exposed to when we play the dating game.

My intention is to caution you when you date women who seem overly curious about your job or what you do for a living, how much you make, etc.

Teach yourself to spot these financial predators before it's too late. Look at the intentions behind such questions.

Or you may end up in a 'legal prostitution' situation, mistaking it for love.

Playing the dating game, with marriage in the back of your mind (even if that be years into the future), is more a matter of weeding out unqualified women, leaving you open to the qualified women.

The women who will actually see you for who you are. Not for the size of your bank account or any other 'assets' you offer them.

Plan to get married one day? I suggest becoming a powerful communicator through a strong identity first, then dating and filtering women through a screening process. In Cool Guy with Women I teach you exactly what that process is and how to apply it.

This ensures you avoid a legalized prostitution kind of marriage.

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