How to Respond to Rejection
to Make it Work for You!
I want to tell you why rejection is great. Yes, I said great! Here's how to respond to rejection in a way that actually BENEFITS you.
Think about what you ultimately want for a moment...
Do you want to be with a woman who is genuinely interested in you? Or would you settle for a woman who isn't fully interested in you -- just for the sake of having girlfriend?
When you consider what it is you really want from women and dating, you can learn how to respond to rejection in a way that actually makes you feel GREAT.
Why Rejection is Great...
If you want a healthy relationship with a cool chick, there are certain things that have to "be in place" before you can experience it.
Number one... a woman has to be in the relationship because she's interested in YOU.
Keep in mind, there is a huge danger in pursuing or keeping a relationship with a woman who isn't TRULY interested in you... she's in it for the benefits you give her -- NOT you.
This makes you vulnerable to becoming part of her agenda.
And that's exactly why rejection is great -- it PREVENTS you from getting into a mess. This is the best attitude in learning how to respond to rejection...
... by knowing what rejection REALLY means to you.
When a woman rejects you, she's telling you she ISN'T interested. This is great. Why? Suppose she didn't reject you, DESPITE her lack of interest. Really, this would set things up for her to use you.
Do you want to be used by women? Didn't think so.
The Danger of NOT Being Rejected
Imagine for a moment that you meet a woman and she DOESN'T reject you. But she rarely gives you the time of day either. After a year of courting her, you finally get her as a girlfriend.
Later, you end up marrying her. And what does she do? She quits her job while you work to pay the bills. Your relationship isn't that great. In fact, you later find out she's been having an affair in the house you work to own while you're at work doing just that!
Ugly picture, I know. And when you learn how to respond to rejection in an empowering way, this will never happen. Why? What was it that caused this problem to grow like a fungus?
She didn't reject you -- even though she wasn't really interested.
That's why rejection is great. It's just an indicator that a woman isn't interested in you. And giving your time to women who aren't genuinely interested in you is a waste of time.
And so what? Not every woman you meet it going to be interested. So isn't it great to know when a woman isn't interested from the moment you meet her?
You bet!
What's the best way on how to respond to rejection? Make it work for you! Rejection just means a woman isn't capable of fitting into YOUR life.
In fact, she doesn't even qualify. You have all the power -- when you let go of your ego.
