Foreplay Tips for Guys
to Get her Engine Roaring
Looking for ways to turn a woman on -- big time? There are some basic foreplay tips for guys that can teach you how to improve your abilities ten-fold.
Whether you have only a little experience at the moment or you simply want to improve, these foreplay tips for guys will not only teach you to give a woman a fantastic experience, but she'll be eager to be with you again.
Many guys seem to be on the lookout for techniques. They want to know what to do. But if you've been visiting my site regularly, you've probably realized that what you do specifically isn't that important.
What's important is how you respond in your immediate situations or interactions. There is no "right way" that can be applied to every circumstance.
The same applies to foreplay. It's the principles that guide your actions.
If you understand the principles, what you do takes care of itself without you having to think about it.
Instead, stay in the moment WITH the process.
So just what are these basic foreplay tips for guys? Well, it centers around one skill -- or ability. If you can fine-tune this one ability, you can give a woman experiences during foreplay that will set the stage for some great sex...
Give Your Attention to
How
She Responds to You
Maybe you've gotten foreplay tips from other guys or even from women themselves. They tend to tell what women like -- what to do.
Sure, women have similarities, but every woman is different.
What makes a guy good at foreplay is being able to figure out what a woman enjoys. Discover what makes her 'tick'.
Women don't always know what makes them tick -- except when a guy's done something to her that she likes. But that has nothing to do with you. What he did may not be your way.
That's why it's pointless to ask her. Plus, that takes the adventure out the process.
So how do you discover what a woman enjoys? You experiment. And as you experiment, be receptive to how she responds to everything you do.
That's the real key. Stop worrying about pleasing her, or being good. Thinking like that gets in the way.
Instead, try different things -- make 'mistakes' -- WHILE paying attention. Her responses -- the way her body responds and the noises she makes -- will tell you exactly whether she likes it or not. And knowing what she doesn't enjoy lets you know what to avoid in the future.
Look at Women’s Sexuality
Like an Adventurous Puzzle
One of the most important foreplay tips for guys is to have patience.
Most guys have a tendency to want to get right to the sex. But unless she's already hot, she needs time for you to warm her up.
For those of you in colder climates, you know you don't start your car and drive. What do you do? You start it and let the engine warm up for 15 minutes first.
If you don't, you can damage your engine. With women, if you don't let her warm up first, you can damage your sexual relationship with her.
The best lovers put a woman's needs before their own. And by doing that, their needs are fulfilled later... as a natural benefit.
How do you do this?
Look at foreplay as an adventure. Stop thinking about the end, about what you want. Focus your attention on discovering what makes her swoon. Look at her sexuality like a puzzle that you can play with, like an Arubix Cube.
Not just that, learn to enjoy it. Foreplay really is an adventure of all YOUR senses.
Use All Your Senses... but Your Vision!
Guys focus on their vision. But during foreplay, shut it off. Then focus on all your other senses. This is one of the best foreplay tips for guys I can offer you.
If you do that, you'll really enjoy foreplay. And that's what makes a man good at foreplay...
... when he enjoys exploring a woman's body.
Shift your attention to different senses. Spend some time feeling and touching her, smelling her, tasting her, and listening to her.
Appreciate her. And notice how she responds to everything you do.
Continue doing this until she's begging you for what you know you both want. Then bring your vision back into the picture. By following these foreplay tips for guys, you'll have set the stage for some great sex.
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
