How to Use Eye Contact to
Signal Interest to Women
The very first step in actually learning how to meet women is using eye contact to signal interest. There's nothing more powerful than eye contact when you learn how to use it to communicate what you want.
The power behind eye contact is not the act of connecting with a woman's eyes. It's what you communicate during that connection.
You can use eye contact to signal interest and attract a woman, or you can use it to repel a woman.
Learning the difference is critical.
And that difference has to do not with making eye contact, but with what you're thinking as you make eye contact.
A woman told me a story about how she had sex with a guy without exchanging any words -- but was initiated by eye contact alone! It happened in broad daylight. She was walking down the sidewalk when she made eye contact with a guy in his car. She then turned down a side street. He drove down the same street and parked. She got into his car, and they boinked each others brains out. When the encounter was over, she got out and walked away.
Thus is the power of eye contact.
I heard this story years before I understood the Dating Game and was blown away. I just found it hard to believe. Now, it's obvious.
We communicate our whole being when we make eye contact. Our beliefs about ourselves or our confidence level and the power of the intentions behind what we want come across.
Using eye contact to signal interest to women has more to do with what's going on inside our minds. Whatever mental state we're experiencing is broadcasted through our eye contact -- and body language.
So the real task is to develop that mental state, and then let our eye contact communicate that state and the desire behind it naturally.
Destroy Your Shameful Thoughts
Cultivating this mental state has little to do with creating it. Instead, it has to do with eliminating certain thoughts from our thinking.
And the biggest barrier to using eye contact to signal interest is shame.
When you can remove all impulses of shame from your thinking, your sexual desires float clearly to the surface AND they are received by women in a way that encourages her sexual urges to begin 'flowering'.
But when we mix our sexual desires with shame, women get freaked out. This is what's happening when women talk about 'creepy guys'... they mix shame in with their sexual urge when they make eye contact.
Learning to make eye contact to signal interest to women involves noticing and eliminating shame impulses from merging with your sex desire.
How do you do this?
First, start paying attention to what you're really thinking when you look at a woman in a sexual way. Do you feel guilty, like you'd be ashamed if a woman knew what you were really thinking? Do you feel bad for wanting to get dirty with her from all angles and positions?
There's this huge lie in our society today that men should be ashamed for these thoughts, and that women despise men for their sexual nature.
Not true, except amongst feminists. But this is their issue. Feminist women are ashamed to be women, and they expect men to be ashamed to be men.
Don't buy their lies!
Second, when and if you notice you feel ashamed to look at women in a sexual way, you have to start removing those thoughts. I'm not sure there's a practical method other than to remind and reassure yourself that there's nothing to be guilty about.
Then to look at women with a clear sexual desire free from shame or guilt. The favorable responses you start noticing will also help reassure that it's not your sexual desire that's the enemy -- it's the shame!
As you remove those thoughts, you begin using eye contact to signal interest effortlessly.
Embrace Your Sexual Desire!
There's no shame in being a man with a powerful sex drive -- unless you let it control you. That's the only danger.
The man who harbors no shame concerning his sexual nature is magnetically attractive to women -- and despised by feminists, even though they can't help but be attracted to him.
After you've removed all impulses of shame from your attitude toward women and sex, you give yourself the choice to embrace your sexual desire.
Now, when you connect with a woman, you will use eye contact to signal interest naturally. It's an effect of embracing your sexual nature.
How do you embrace your sex nature?
Letting go of shame is half of it and the desire moves in to fill what was once shame. But you can also heighten it by thinking sexual thoughts when you make eye contact with a woman.
If you make eye contact with a strange woman, keep the connection as long as the situation permits. Don't look away. And during the duration of the connection, think about just how much you like what you see.
When there's shame in a guy's thinking, his eye contact will come off as desperate. But when the shame has been eliminated, you will radiate desire.
And the greatest compliment you can give a woman is to communicate through your eye contact just how hot she is. That's why desire is so powerful.
There's nothing to prove.
Also, when you're talking to a woman, regardless of the subject matter, think about how beautiful she is as you listen to her. Even if you're talking about the weather, if you're thinking about how attractive her eyes are and how much you love the sound of her voice, she will feel your desire.
Mastering eye contact to signal interest is a matter of the mind. Take control of your thinking, and you'll begin to notice, create, and grasp the opportunities that present themselves everyday of your life.
