Do Women Lie About
Past Sexual Partners?
Have you ever wondered, "Do women lie about past sexual partners?" Maybe you've recently started seeing a woman or even had a girlfriend for months, and somehow her sex history roles into the picture.
And she actually tells you an answer -- she gives you a number.
But somehow, you just don't quite believe her. Your gut is giving you strange signals. "Was she telling me the truth -- or was she lying?"
Now, that all depends on what you call a lie. And somehow women seem to have a different definition of WHAT a lie is. Don't ask me why. And don't ask me to explain their reasoning for justifying it.
But, yes, from a guy's point of view -- from the facts, meaning the numbers -- women DO lie about their sexual pasts -- big time!
If you're concerned about this issue, you can let it anger you by feeling betrayed -- or you can understand the issue behind it, then change your approach.
The important question is why do women lie about past sexual partners?
For the same reason they lie about EVERYTHING else. When you understand the reason why women lie about their pasts, you can actually begin communicating in another way -- which encourages a woman to be completely truthful and honest with you.
Here's the secrets women don't tell you about why they lie...
Women Always Avoid Judgment
Stereotypical, I know... but it seems like it's in a woman's nature to be approval-seeking. And approval-seekers have a tough time facing criticism.
What's the solution to this problem? What's an effective way of dealing with something you don't like?
Simply avoid it. And that's just it. Women tend to avoid criticism and judgment at all costs.
And how does a person do that? How does a person avoid certain issues that are going to create judgment?
Tell "little" white lies when accused -- or "asked" -- directly by a guy. Or choose to omit "tiny" bits of information, like the three guys she slept with last week.
They don't want to be labeled a "slut" or some other obscenity.
So why do women lie about past sexual experiences? They fear disapproval and being labeled. And not only do they want to avoid judgmental situations, but also situations where a guy will lose it -- and blame HER for it.
Women Can Spot Judgmental
Guys Millions of Miles Away
The more experienced a woman is with men and dating, the better her radar is in telling her when a guy is the "judgmental type". She knows that if he knew certain things about her, he would get upset and label her.
Why do women lie about past sexual experiences? Simple, really. She doesn't want to be the cause of bringing out a guys insecurities and letting them put a kink in her relationship.
But when you understand a woman's sexual nature, and you can radiate that you accept her and her "appetite", she'll be completely open about it... and with you.
I call this "Sexual Acceptance".
Then she lets you into her circle of confidence. Why do people let other's into their confidence? Trust. And trust comes from complete acceptance -- no judgment.
If you wonder "Do women lie about past sexual experiences?" the answer is generally "Yes".
But the interesting thing is that when you stop wondering -- you stop the thoughts that motivate that very question -- the answer becomes "No".
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
