The Key to Dating Hot Sexy
Women Few Guys Know
Most guys wish they were dating hot sexy women. Is there any dispute there? But how do you turn that wish into a reality? What major changes do you have to make to yourself and in your thinking?
These women are highly sought-after. Every guy wants to date them. Isn't there so much competition that the chances are smaller? And that's assuming she's available. Wouldn't these women all have been snatched up already and have boyfriends?
So many misconceptions.
But the truth is, dating hot sexy women can actually be easier than dating average women.
Hard to believe? Well, it's true. But there is one condition... you have to not only grasp the concept I'll explain shortly, but you have turn it into a living reality.
This can only be done in your own mind.
Be Her Oasis in the Desert
Yes, there may be a lot of 'competition', meaning there are a lot of guys who approach her and ask her out. But how many of those do you think succeed?
Hot women have seen and heard just about every approach that guys use. What this means is that a sexy woman will disqualify guys VERY QUICKLY.
Because they've had a stream of guys who wanted them since they were younger, they've learned their lessons very early on. Whereas average women who aren't approached nearly as often, don't always know how to disqualify guys as quickly.
It takes them longer to figure out when guys aren't worth their time.
What does this all mean to you? It means that most of the so-called competition eliminates itself. And not only that but this makes dating hot sexy women much easier.
Why?
Because when you come around, having grasped the following concept, she's actually relieved. If you doubt that it's tough being a hot woman, think about her experience for a moment...
She's so used to having untactful, Nice Guys ogling and approaching her that, when a genuine Cool Guy finally comes along, he's like an oasis in the desert.
She meets so many guys, but so few are actually men that it becomes frustratingly to her!
It's like seeing mirages, only to realize as she gets closer that they weren't real. Just an illusion.
But when you learn how to become that guy -- that oasis in the desert -- dating hot sexy women, you'll find, can be much easier than your average woman -- assuming you...
Never View Her as Having
More Value than Yourself
Why do guys fail at dating hot sexy women? They lose before they even begin simply because, in their minds, they perceive hot women as having more value than them.
They think, "Wow! What a goddess!" And then they treat her accordingly with compliments, generally going out of their way to try to please her, and nervousness, which all say that she's more important than them.
They put her on a pedestal so high, she knows the only thing she can do is fall. Meaning that even if the guy actually did get to know her, since he's built her up to such a goddess-like image in his mind, she's going to let him down.
It's inevitable. The truth is, he doesn't even see her as a person.
So the biggest concept any guy needs to grasp to start dating hot sexy women is to see them as a people, not some kind of 'beautiful statues'.
For when you stop viewing hot women as special, when you view them the same as everybody else, you also stop communicating that they're more valuable than you.
In fact, what you want to do is quite the opposite. You want to communicate that you value yourself and your own life more than you value her.
But the first step is to take them off the pedestals society places them on, and develop an inner confidence and esteem in yourself.
Then you can communicate to women what's going on inside.
How to Communicate Your Inner Value
When you have an inner sense of value, you don't have to do anything. Everything takes care of itself. You naturally stop acting in ways that communicate to hot women that they're more valuable than you.
But then there's the flipside -- communicating your value in it's place.
Since hot women are so accustomed to the Nice Guy approach, sometimes they'll assume every guy's a Nice Guy. Instead of "Innocent until proven guilty" think "Nice Guy until proven a Cool Guy."
When dating hot sexy women, what you have to do in these situations is communicate that she's mistaken.
It's almost like hot women have these "defense mechanisms" against Nice Guys. So sometimes, when you meet a hot woman for the first time, you have to communicate through that mechanism before you can actually start communicating with the real woman underneath it -- the person.
But the key to dating hot sexy women is to perceive yourself as more valuable -- with confidence. When you can do that, women will follow your lead and assume since you think you're more valuable, you must be.
Dating hot sexy women really involves indirectly demonstrating to them through your attitude and behavior that they see YOU as more valuable. The key is to influence them to see you as the catch.
The opposite of Nice Guys, who see a hot woman as the catch.
How do you do this? Things like...
Instead of giving them lots of attention, ignore them. Instead of doing favors for them, tell them to do things for you -- backed by a strong intention. The list goes on.
When you believe you're the catch, everything takes care of itself, and dating hot sexy women becomes a reality.
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
