Remove Confusion in Sexuality
With so much confusion in sexuality today, I think giving yourself a true education regarding sexuality is essential.
The best way to improve your dating life is to better your understanding of sexuality.
For most, as far as sexuality is concerned, the world is flat.
It's no secret, men and women are different. There are two worlds of sexuality: masculinity and femininity. But most people think of sexuality as physical rather than looking deeper, at our sexual IDENTITIES.
The best way to attract the women you want is not by using tricks and gimmicks, it's by embracing your masculinity whole-heartedly.
I found part of the process of doing this is to remove the confusion in sexuality, for if we don't, we'll end up blaming and complaining about women.
Those who criticize or condescendingly condemn the opposite sex have trouble accepting the reality of the differences. The problem is the reality of sexuality isn't what they want it to be.
So they remain ignorant and try to explain what's wrong.
Their problem is not accepting men as men and women as women.
Anyone who complains about the opposite sex cannot and has not yet accepted them for who they are and will find themselves stuck in Spine Donor hell.
Let's remove the major confusion in sexuality. It has to do with the strength behind both sexual worlds...
Women are Socially Smart
Look at women's habits and behavior. What do you see?
Endless talking -- sometimes about apparently nothing, shopping, Hollywood gossip, reading beauty magazines, going crazy over food and chocolate... the list goes on.
Why?
To us guys, many of these things seem aimless. Nothing seems to be accomplished. There's nothing to show for it at the end of the day.
Or is there? Is this just a part of the confusion in sexuality?
Since us guys tend to prize ourselves on our intelligence, we may think women are unintelligent -- according to OUR definition of intelligence, that is. They don't seem interested in the arts or sciences or determining causes and effects and other problems of logic.
No, all they seem to be interested in is discussing people.
We improve areas of ourselves by investing the time in practicing. Women value 'social smarts' so they spend their time socializing. They find their value in where they stand in a community.
You'll find that all of their habits and behaviors reflect that... and just maybe it isn't as mindless as many guys think, considering one of the keys to getting what we want in life lies in our social skills.
Understanding this one reality should do enough to remove the confusion in sexuality regarding women's interests and behaviors.
Men are Intellectually Smart
At the same time, you'll probably notice many women seem to think men's interest in sports, machinery, and ideas are pointless. Our world makes little sense to them.
Why? Because they don't place their value where we do.
Most of us guys will do just about anything to avoid admitting we're wrong or that we don't have the answers or solutions.
The reason?
We tend to value our intellects and ability to 'make things happen' above our social standing. So naturally, our interests and behaviors reflect that.
Some men think women are dumb because they don't understand -- or rather -- they don't care about about ideas, while some women think men are dumb because they have no social skills.
But, really, these are the most unintelligent people. Not because that's who they are, but because they choose to let the confusion in sexuality be a part of their lives.
The truly smart decide to learn to improve on their weak spots rather than complaining about the opposite sex.
Balance Your Sexuality
When you've made the basic distinction between men and women's 'smarts' and removed that confusion in sexuality, you realize it becomes necessary to work at improving yourself to function in women's worlds as effectively as you do in our men's world.
This means that you improve your communication and social skills.
Most guys are highly deficient in this department. And it is neglecting this aspect that is responsible for them being used by women.
But the man who backs his intellect with improving his communication, rather than using his intellect to explain away why communication is of little importance, has a world of opportunities at his fingertips.
These men become the alpha males in society. And because alpha males can operate in BOTH world's -- men's and women's -- they are highly sought after by women in love, and because they even surpass women's communication abilities (because it's backed by an intellect), they are also highly sought after by men in business.
Balance your sexuality and you'll succeed with women in love and with men in business!
And it begins with removing your confusion in sexuality, meaning you take smart and dumb out of the 'sexual equation'. For when you can balance your sexuality with a slightly feminine tone, you create a connecting link between the two worlds of sexuality that empowers you in both realms.
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
