What are the Clues of Attraction?
Knowing a woman is interested can give you the confidence to advance, but what are the clues of attraction? What are you looking for to show up on your radar so you can 'read' a woman's inner thoughts towards you?
I'm sure you know that most communication is nonverbal. And because body language is a reflection of a woman's inner thoughts, it never lies.
A woman's body language reveals the clues of attraction. If a woman is attracted to you, it will show up in her body language. You simply have to tune in to it and know what to look for.
We all naturally have the ability to interpret body language, though some of us have just forgotten how to read it effectively. But once you realize the major clues of attraction in a woman's body language, they become unmistakable.
You don't even have to look for them. Once you know them and can identify them, you begin noticing them on 'autopilot' without having to think about them.
In a way, it's like learning to drive a car for the first time. In the beginning, you have think about what you're doing. But soon enough, you stop thinking about it...
... it just 'happens'.
It's the same with noticing the clues of attraction in a woman's body language. You feel or sense it in your 'gut'. You just know.
So just what are these clues?
Here are the 3 major clues of attraction...
Close or Far?
Women who are attracted to you will take or make every opportunity to get closer to you while women who aren't, will keep their distance or make excuses to get away from you.
This is the first of the clues of attraction...
If a woman is interested in you, this will be the first signal that shows up on your radar.
When a woman's interested in you, she will always try to close the distance. This is everything from location to proximity.
If a woman knows you're going to be somewhere, she'll make an effort to be there too. If you move to another location, she'll be not to far behind. She'll generally tend to show up in your general area.
And if you're in standing together, she'll move into your personal space or if you're standing in a group, she'll be sure to stand behind or closest to you.
Of course, the opposite is true. An uninterested woman will avoid a guy at all costs.
Revealing or Concealing?
Women who are attracted to you will reveal and display their 'sexual assets' to try to get your attention, while women who aren't will try to hide them.
Generally, the second of the clues of attraction.
When a woman is close to you and in your field of vision, she'll display her sexual parts by attempting to make them more noticeable to grab your attention.
This is much like a 'model pose'. She'll arch her back, thus sticking her butt back out and pushing her breasts forward and up, almost like a peacock.
Other times, depending on what she's doing, she'll either bend over revealing her cleavage or behind, depending on your angle or reach up on her tippy-toes to show off her legs -- or any other display of her legs.
In short, she'll open herself up to you as much as possible. In extreme cases, she'll uncross her legs at you.
And again, the reverse is true. An uninterested woman will try to conceal her sexuality by slouching to make her breasts less obvious.
Attentive or Distracted?
Women who are attracted to you will look at you like you're the only one in the room while women who aren't will give little eye contact and break it quickly.
Naturally, this is the the last of the clues of attraction for it's generally during conversation.
When a woman's interested in you, she'll hang on every word you say and laugh at you jokes (even if they're not funny). She'll make solid eye contact without breaking it.
She'll sit up straight and lean forward towards you.
And yet again, a woman who isn't interested will sit back, make little eye contact, while looking around and not give much attention to a guy.
These are the basic clues of attraction. Look for them, and you'll begin finding them.
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