Zero Tolerance for
Cheating in Relationships
How would you respond if you caught a girlfriend cheating? Maybe it's even happened. What's the BEST way to deal with it?
Cheating in relationships deserves ZERO tolerance -- if you're seeking a healthy relationship.
It's much better to close a relationship than let an unfaithful woman back into your confidence.
The only other option is to refuse to give her a second chance at that commitment, and instead 'downgrade' her to an open relationship...
... apparently that's all she thinks she's worth.
However, if you're attached to a woman, it may be unwise to consider the second option. It depends on where you're at, and how cheating in relationships affects you.
When You Feel Betrayed...
There's one choice. And one choice only. It's simple, but perhaps not necessarily easy.
Cut off ALL contact with this woman. And move on.
Women's actions never lie. And a woman cheating in relationships communicates a very strong message. What does it say?
"I'm not fully committed to this relationship." She doesn't have the respect for you that you deserve.
And if what you want is a committed relationship, you have to find a woman who is committed. If a woman cheats, she has just told you it wasn't her.
It can be tough, especially if you've invested time, effort, and trust into a woman and a relationship only to discover she cheated on you. Especially if a guy is attached to a woman, he may be hesitant.
This is the real danger.
Why?
A woman may try to take advantage of that hesitancy by apologizing and making ridiculous excuses in an attempt to win your trust back.
Please don't go for it. If you do, you can bet she'll take you for another ride -- and just a little faster this time.
Instead, choose to look at how this situation benefits you. I know, cheating in relationships can trigger some negative feelings, so give yourself the time you need.
But come to the conclusion that you don't want to find yourself in a situation like this again. Then resolve to figure out why she cheated.
What you'll find is that it was either her -- you unintentionally chose a woman who couldn't give you what you wanted in the first place. Or you, again, unknowingly setup the relationship with her in a way that indirectly 'encouraged' her.
Learn why women cheat on their partners.
When You Feel Enlightened...
On the other hand, if women cheating in relationships doesn't immobilize you -- perhaps, for whatever reason, it didn't surprise you, take away her option of having you in a steady relationship.
Instead, keep her as a 'friend with benefits'.
Of course, you'll likely only find yourself in this position if you already understand the dating game and you have other options of your own.
Ideally, this the best place to be.
Women cheating in relationships 'releases' you from your own commitment to her. And if you feel no animosity, why close a relationship completely?
You know you can't trust her. But why not keep her in your life until you find someone else who may actually want a committed relationship from you?
But NEVER give a cheater a second chance at your heart and your trust.
Ever.
Period.
How to Become a "Natural" with Women
Your Friend,
Jay Julio
