Alpha Male in Leadership:
The Cool Guy’s Power!
Let's discuss why Cool Guy's are the alpha male in leadership and have so much power in social situations with women. But to understand it, we first have to look at the male social 'hierarchy'...
Cool Guys (Leaders) get the first choice of women because they're the alpha males who lead others. They can influence other people's minds in a way that benefits everyone involved, for they not only have the necessary self-control, they strengthen their communities.
Bad Guys (Jerks) get the second choice of women because they refuse to be manipulated. They may not be an alpha male in leadership, but because they refuse to be controlled, they also have strength, which is generally used only to benefit themselves.
Smooth Guys (Players) get the third choice of women because they give women pleasure directly, through who they are. But since their identities are dependent on getting feminine approval, they sacrifice their strength.
Nice Guys (Spine-donors) are left with the last choice of women. They have to settle for whoever's left over after the rest have had their pick. Like the Smooth Guy, Nice Guys give women pleasure at the expense of themselves. But unlike the Smooth Guy, Nice Guys are an indirect source of pleasure for it has nothing to do with them personally. They're simply a vehicle.
The Male Social Hiearchy
The major differences? Internal power attained only by living by your own rules versus false power found in external attachments, following someone else's rules.
Cool Guys have self-control, the only true power. This lends to being the alpha male in leadership.
Jerks refuse to be controlled, so they don't give their power away. This is a unextended form of power, but power nonetheless.
Smooth Guys believe they have control when they get sex, but, even though they may not see it, this is just different ways of giving their power to women for they believe they derive value from women while women get the real benefit.
Nice Guys, similar to Smooth Guys, also derive their value from women. They simply look for it in a differente aspect. Instead of through sex, it's through winning women's approval by being a 'good boyfriend'... and later a 'good husband'.
Women and Society
Understanding why women are so attracted to the alpha male in leadership -- which is the Cool Guy's power -- has more to with understanding Woman's Nature and the importance they place on society.
In other words, it is their status amongst other females where they place the value, not men. Men seem to be more of a means. That's why we have to let go of our crazy ideas about love and romance, or that we're special if we can get women, for it's got little to do with us personally.
This kind of pride and ignorance does nothing but destroy men.
Being a PART of society is a woman's focus. Women want to be the queen of their communities. And since men CREATE society, as communities are initially formed by men, we are the main gateway for women to enter society.
Women pick men based on the best way for them to enter society.
The kind of man she gets determines what kind of role she'll get amongst the other females in her community. If her man is more powerful than the other women's men, all women submit to her.
That's why women always for go the alpha male in leadership first and the Jerk second. These are the best ways for her to enter 'high society'.
Smooth Guys are temporary, as they're for pleasure purposes only. And Nice Guys are what they settle for if they give up.
Men and Communities
Different men have different views on communities: their place inside them and the role they play. And it is these views that shape their lives... and the women they attract.
Cool Guys form their communities. When Cool Guys are alone, they invite people to join them. They welcome others into their lives and into their experience.
Jerks generally avoid other communities for they tend to be one man communities (though they are potential Cool Guys). When Jerks are alone, they encourage people to leave them alone, which often creates an attractive, cocky aura. Thus, the 'bad boy' appeal women love.
Smooth Guys try to enter communities by proving themselves worthy. When Smooth Guys are alone, they try to smooth talk their way into people's confidence by qualifying themselves to others to win approval and acceptance.
And Nice Guys wait around for the invitation to enter the community. When Nice Guys are alone, they try to tag along or look for permission.
The best way to get the women you want is not to pursue them. It's to pursue your own dreams by creating a community around that dream. Then let women pursue you because you're the center of that community.
And the more 'status' that community has in society as a whole, the more women want to be a part of it.
After all, why are women obsessed with celebrities?
To do this you have to become the alpha male in leadership and form a community. And it starts with a dream, a purpose. Not only a purpose in Life, but also having a mutually beneficial purpose or direction that is beneficial to the communities you find yourself in.
