Alpha Male Behavior
and How to Manifest It
Cool Guys naturally display alpha male behavior and so, radiate alpha male body language as a side-effect which tends to magnetize women. But like the spoken language, the words are just tools we use to convey our message.
So it is with body language: positions, gestures, and voice tone are just tools in alpha male body language.
And like verbal communication, we generally don't focus on the individual words we use -- for if we did, we wouldn't be able to put a sentence together or at best, it would come off unnatural or robotic.
Instead we focus on our intention... what we want to communicate, right?
It's the same thing with alpha male behavior. We can't become the alpha male by calculating our body language -- unless we want to come off macho in the sense that we have something to prove.
Instead, we have to THINK about what we intend to communicate and then let our body language take care of itself as a side-effect.
So how do you think like and become the alpha male in a community?
The True Alpha Male Secret Revealed!
The alpha male secret is the source which gives a man the power to live in his world and 'take charge' in interpersonal interactions and social settings.
It is what gives him confidence. It is what makes him appear to have an almost 'god-like' power.
And it is what causes women to be attracted to him.
When you understand and apply it consistently in your life, you'll begin exhibiting alpha male behavior along with alpha male body language naturally.
As discussed in Cool Guy with Women, along with how to develop it, the alpha male secret is to...
First learn to expand your periphery awareness and then learn to control your attention within that field.
This gives you immense powers that you can utilize in social settings.
How the Secret Impacts Power
in Relationships or Interactions
Many people walk through life as if they were wearing blinders. This means they're unaware not only of their own intentions, but others' as well.
The core alpha male behavior comes from living without these social blinders.
For without these blinders -- which you can achieve by developing your powers of awareness and attention -- whenever you enter a social situation, you begin to take every person into your awareness and read their intentions instantly.
And as the social story unfolds, you also notice how others respond, which allows you to be ADAPTABLE in directing the flow of the interactions without having to rely on a rigid approach or plan.
In fact, you notice all this without having to even 'think' about it.
It is this one secret source which is responsible for true alpha male behavior, for it allows you to live fully in your own world. And the better you get at it, the less outside influences can take you away from it or have other people pull you into their realities.
Consider the most powerful and undeniable alpha males in history, like Jesus or Buddha. They where so strong in their worlds that no one could influence their minds with either doubt or fear.
Now, you probably don't want 'divine status', you just want to use the alpha male secret to succeed with women. But like the aphorism in the movie Spiderman:
"With great power, comes great responsibility."
Alpha Male Status for the Group’s Benefit
If you haven't had an experience where you were living in your own world yet -- where you could read what everyone around you was thinking, all as it was happening -- it's probably apparent that it's a very difficult thing to understand through an explanation using language.
It's wholly subjective.
But you've probably been in the presence of someone who had alpha male status. You could sense that nothing in the interaction took place without his permission, so to speak.
Yet this was all unspoken. It was just an energy in the interaction. And everyone could just sense it in his alpha male body language.
By learning to apply the alpha male secret, you do get alpha male status, but it is only those who have integrity and a willingness to use it to serve others who will realize it's true power without it back-firing on them later.
For Bad Guys often have alpha male status and they are successful with women, but in the end, Life cripples or destroys them.
But if you use your alpha male status to benefit everyone in the entire social setting, you win respect from all -- with the exception of those who are envious.
When you can use alpha male behavior to short-circuit things like animosity between two people in a group, sometimes without the 'attacker' even noticing, you will win the recipients utmost respect.
And not only that...
Women Pursue the Respect of the Alpha Male
Since women are keenly attuned to the world of intentions, where most men aren't, they'll notice what you've just done even when other men will have completely missed it.
And women will admire your keen sense of justice...
... which, when combined with Masculine Power, is a very rare and uncommon thing for a woman to experience in her entire life.
Yes, even though women are attracted to and go for Bad Guys because of their alpha male behavior, they really do want a respectful guy -- a Cool Guy.
Bad Boys tend to be incapable of giving women long-term relationships, and that's why they often settle for Nice Guys as long-term partners.
But Cool Guys operate on both levels. Because of their alpha male behavior, they trigger that gut level attraction in women AND yet are fully capable of giving a great long-term relationship too.
So when you become the alpha male in the social settings you find yourself in and use your alpha male status in a way that benefits the entire group as a whole by ensuring it's positive and fun...
Women will want to win your respect. They'll want to please you just because they know that you believe you deserve the best treatment.
After all, it's Human Nature to want to freely give to those who unselfishly serve and respect others. However, this, by no measure means that you're a 'slave' or that you have no backbone.
True alpha male behavior is quite the opposite.
